I think it’s a shame that people are talking about her and being all sad now. It’s too late, she’s gone. Now that may sound inconsiderate or rude to some but it’s true. People don’t care until you’re gone….whether they think you’re serious or not….to someone who is suicidal they don’t usually joke around and if they do it’s so they don’t freak anyone out but in their mind and to them they know how serious they really are.
I didn’t know Sam, but through her posts and what I’ve read about her home life and how Christmas has been sucked out of her life, I feel like I know her. I don’t think you need to know a person to realize how broken they are….how broken their life is. I wish I had known Sam….I would message her every day to see how she was doing but now it’s too late.
It is too late and there’s nothing we can do to bring her back but we can make sure that it doesn’t happen again. If you know someone who has joked or even seriously talked to you about suicide, take it as a serious implication that they’re reaching out for help and they’re just hoping (praying even) that someone listens and someone takes them serious enough to be there for them and let them know that they aren’t alone.
This world is cruel enough as it is and as Taylor Swift fans we need to stick together and be there for each other and help each other when the time is needed. This goes out to my followers and I’ve said this many of times. YOU are important and that life you’re living now is not how your life will be forever but you need to stick around long enough to see what your life will become and how great it will be.
And to Sam I know you aren’t reading this because I know you’re in a better place but you are loved and you won’t be forgotten. Your life and the story you told will live on forever in our hearts. You seemed like a sweet girl and you seemed like you had a wonderful blog. Taylor would have been so proud of you to know the story you told and the good things you did in your life. I’m sorry I didn’t get to know you sooner.
You are forever in our hearts babygirl, may you NEVER forget the essence of your spark.
I decided to list my favorite songs from the album as of now. With the album have being out for awhile, I thought I’d give my opinions. Plus I’m bored. :)
I checked tumblr on my break at work and I’m just getting caught up but knowing that Taylor was awarded the Pinnacle Award and performing “red” tonight, I knew I had to listen to “red” on my way home.
I couldn’t help but start crying and I’m crying now.
I want all of the haters to read this and remember it. I know I choo Taylor out at times and she does do some things that I don’t necessarily agree with….but this is a moment where I am so, so proud to be her fan.
It’s amazing and silly at the same time to be so proud and love someone so much that you’ve never even met. We’ve all watched Taylor grow and grow into this amazing, hard working, charitable, wonderful young woman who has written all of her songs and made music she believes in.
I don’t care what other people say about Taylor. I don’t care when the media brings her down, I don’t care because I know how I feel about her and how proud I am and right now, I could not be more proud. She’s done so much and achieved and accomplished so much and I just can’t wait to see what she does next.
Taylor Alison Swift has taught me so many life lessons and been there for me through every new chapter of my life and I couldn’t, for a second think of having my life without her.
I am so proud to call myself a Taylor Swift fan. It’s an honor, actually.
I don’t know man, I just love the line in All Too Well that goes
"You taught me about your past thinking your future was me."
It’s really powerful to me. When you’re in a relationship you want to learn everything about a person and you learn about their past and what they were like as a kid and what they liked when they were in high school….and you think in 10 years you’ll remember that conversation. In the moment you think “I need to pay attention to this,” not thinking that in 6 months it’ll all come to an end. Then when it’s all said and done and you’re getting over someone you remember that conversation and in a way you wish you could forget it but it replays in your mind constantly making it harder to get over someone. I guess that’s just the blind optimism…
To people who say they don’t like Sweeter Than Fiction I think you have to think about the end credits of a movie…think of the song that is playing when you’re walking out of the theatre….this song is perfect for that. Also keep in mind that this song is in reference to the movie, I think if we saw the movie we’d like the song a lot more cause we’d see the inspiration.
Personally I love the song. It’s super catchy and it’s just a cute, fun song and it has an inspirational message that can relate to anybody. I like that it isn’t about love…Taylor needs more songs that AREN’T about love.
I just hope it grows on everyone.
this love is sweeter than fiction.
listening over my wedding playlist for when the guests are coming in. ugh. this is real, right?
(don’t worry the wedding party and myself are walking in to a quartet version of “love story”) gotta have some tay tay in my wedding.
My sweet little brudder is nominated for Favorite Male Taylor Swift blog and it would be so wonderful if you’d vote for him. He has a wonderful blog and he’s a HUGE male swiftie! :)
I’m also nominated for “Nicest Taylor Swift blog” and it would mean so much to me if you’d vote for me. This is the 3rd year I’ve been nominated and that literally means SO much to me, you have no idea. For those who nominated me, thank you SO SO much. You guys seriously rock my world and make this blog what it is and I can’t thank you enough.
IF I HAD KNOWN THAT RACHEL WAS GOING TO SEE TAYLOR ON THE 13TH IN RALEIGH……I WOULD HAVE BOUGHT TICKETS A LONG TIME AGO WHEN I HAD THE MONEY AND WE COULD HAVE GONE TOGETHER.